Of course! however you might want to make sure and wait for another member to confirm this as I am not completely sure. Better yet, why don't you give a call to the Medifast guys because they can answer you better...
Angie: I'm so sorry that you have this on your shoulders. My heart aches for you and your boys. I know that this is difficult. They say that GBS can make a troubled relationship worse. I don't know if that is true in your case. But I want you to know that his issues are his.
I'm troubled by your words "I'm trying to figure out what I have done." It isn't you. Your reaction was completely normal. Please be kind to yourself...
Oh man, that's awful and I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. Try to keep your chin up, we're here for you!.
Hopefully you have the option for you and your boys to enter famly therapy, or work with clergy, trained to help..
This is so important to minimze the hurt done to you all..
Please get help. you deserve it!..
Angie, I am so sorry for all you are going through. It is not an easy situation for sure..
Can you get some.
To sort through all of your feelings and decide where to go from here? Your kids may benefit from someone to talk to as well..
Our church does a program for kids and adults (meet on same night, but go to seperate classes/programs) to work through issues surrounding seperation and.
Care for kids. You may want to see if any in your area do something like that. (But it also may be too early for that)..
I know you have said your friends are all far away from you, physically, so keep in touch with them and on this board. Don't isolate yourself! You will need your friends to get you through this time for sure! When I was going through my seperation and.
(I had a 6 week old and a 2 year old when my husband decided he didn't want to be married anymore). I moved from NY to AZ to be with my sister and away from all of my friends and family except that one sister. I had very little support and it was rough!.
Hang in there, you can get through this stay strong!.
Hey Angie, so sorry. I am always will to talk if you need to...
Wow Angie, my heart aches for you, I agree that some counselling may help. Good luck to you through this, it will get easier..
Angie, I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. But I noticed your first sentences were very positive ones...so keep thinking of the positives things in your life and I pray you will come to the right dission. Hey positive is at least he was good for all that free protein lol! Take Care!..
Oh, Angie, I am so sorry you are going through this! I agree with the others; this is his issue - you are not responsible for causing it. The sucky thing is that you still have to deal with it. I pray you will feel God's love, comfort, and strength during this painful time..
Angie, life is so strange, but we do get to learn it's lessons. You are a very strong lady, mother and friend. Like everyone said, this is not about you, it's just happening to you. Please hang in there. Talk to someone,.
Or whatever, but never walk this alone...
I am in the healthy range bmi today 24.92. Barely but I did it. 154.4. Although it has been hell for me lately. Many of you know the story and problems I have been having with my husband. My weight has changed and my attitude is more postive and guess what last night I he went to birthday party and came home and told me he cheated on me.
I threw him out. I feel like l lost my best friend. I am trying to figure out what I have done. My kids have been bawling and are sick from all this. I did find him at his work tonight.
Yeah feel so bad you run right over there to.
Your hangover off on her couch. I feel so dirty. I actually came home and slept in my freakin bed. Granted I didnt get to.
With him. We have been distant for some time. I love this man more than I can say. But I will not chase him or beg him to come back I don't want someone that doesn't want me. I am not sure if I can trust him again or not. I am sick.
I know they so things happen for a reason..
God has better things for me cause now I feel. well there aren't words. Hugs Angie..
Angie, I'm sorry you are going through troubles and wish you brighter days ahead..
Be your own best friend. Treat yourself with kindness... continue to eat healthy,.
, take your vitamins, drink your water, surround yourself with people who treat you with love and deserve your love in return..
So sorry to hear about your heartache. Been there, done that. It sucks but you are a strong person and you will survive. This reminds me of something that my dr said in orientation about this happening to people who have had WLS. Didn't expect to actually hear this from anyone here. I second what Shelly said. Do things that support you, whatever that may be...
Angie....my sweet friend and new birth sister I am so sorry you are going through this. Know that I am here for you if you need to talk. Stay postive and hold your head high. You did nothing wrong. It was your husband who could not control his urges...drinking is not a good excuse....and the other girl should feel bad...she knew he was your husband and not hers for the taking..
Please let me know if you need to talk...hugs...Cindy..
Angie... put yourself FIRST! Do what you need to do for YOU. You deserve happiness and you deserve to be loved for who you are. I wish you all the best.....
Ive been there. I was sent to Grmany by the Army. I went without any pay for 4 months because I sent it all to my wife. I was faithful while there. I worked part time to make some extra money to get us a place to live and so I could bring her over. One day in April, my mother wrote and told me my wife had an affair with my high.
Best friend and the best friend of my father. She was arrested for shoplifting and sent back to her parents in Texas. I worked hard to keep the marriage going. I went to Texas to get her as I finally found a small 2 bedroom apartment. When she came to Germany with me, we had a child that needed lip repair.
He and she were sent to the hospital that did this. While there she had an affair with someone she met while she was supposed to be with our son. The hospital discharged her and my son early due to her actions. One weekend a month later, I came home and there was another man in the living room. They both got up and left the apartment. She didnt come home for 3 days and then she said she spent the time with a girlfriend.
I was devistated but I was a fool and wanted to keep the marriage strong. We came back from Germany. For 5 months there was no intamacy in the marriage. She somehow found a job driving a taxi from 6pm to 6am. She never made any money at all. One Friday I came home, no one was there and there was a note that said she would be back on Monday.
In December, I was served with.
Papers. She found someone else and moved in with him. She showed up at the court, pregnant saying I was the father. I Lost my kids in the.
And the court said the child was mine. I protested but it was to no avail. Oklahoma.
Court is not male friendly. I found someone else after several months of being alone. My lawyer called and said the.
Was final and I could pick up the papers at the court. I was so relieved. One day I am divorced and 3 days later I am remarried. Ive been married for 30 years now. My ex said I would never see my kids again. I found them 5 years ago and have met them a grown ups.
I went and my ex was there. She, her mother and grandmother tried everything to start a fight but I was immune to it. My kids saw this and they knew the stories they were told about me were false. But, been there, done that in a way. I didnt feel bad about cheating on my wife at the time.
I thought I was the one who did wrong but I was wrong. I did what was right and I fought to keep the marriage going. I cant speak for others, I can only speak for myself. When my wife cut me off, that told me she didnt care about me anymore, so why should I stay faithful? That was my thinking. I didnt care anymore that I did cheat on her.
But I did it for her but mostly for me. I was told I would be dead in 2 years if I didnt lost the weight. I already had a heart attack, heart bypass.
And a stroke. But, I feel good about myself. I was at 375 at one time. No more 300s for me. Im now at 256. 6 to go to get to 250.
Cheating is like breaking an egg. It happened and you cant take it back. You can work on why it happened and see if it is fixable. You can see if something can be salvaged. I forgave but it didnt do any good.
Sometimes we cant have our birthday cake and eat it too...
Angie....so sorry to hear what you are going through. We are here for you if you need us. You will make it through this. Patti..
Angie, I so sorry you are having to go thru this. Don't blame yourself,keep your head held high and take care of you and your children. Keep.